So, I am kind of terrified of wasting my life. After some deep and long, thoughtful questions from my best friend, we began discussing the idea of further defining our values the other night.  It’s something that is so simple, and struck me as odd that I never thought about it. Her number one purpose in life, she reports, is “love.”  That got me thinking. What do you mean by that? What is love?  Love to me is so vague and is widely interpreted. I asked her – what does that mean?  She responded with “Growth and Intimacy.” Ok, and so what does growth mean? What does intimacy mean for you? I think that’s a problem that many of us get hooked into – chasing vague ideas.  As I was asking her these questions, I flipped it on myself. Success. Success to me is vague and therefore, I…