I had this moment a few weeks back. I’m in a restaurant with 3 of my older male colleagues and leaders.  We just finished up a day full of meetings and are sitting down for a quick bite at a restaurant.  As we were sitting there eating, a girl walks by us.  She’s a smaller girl in stature, guessing early to mid 20’s in age, darker skin, and clearly dressed comfortably for the travel day I assume is ahead of her.  She was wearing grey yoga pants, black “tennies,” and an undersized white t-shirt, however, her shirt is short, revealing her perfectly toned mid-drift.  She chose to not wear a bra that day, as this was evident as she walks past us… very, ahem, “perky” we shall say.  I am not bothered that this girl was wearing…